Thursday, December 31, 2009

in memory of my friend Alfredo Obure

Alfredo celebrating his PhD defense

Today I learned that my friend, Dr. Alfredo Obure, died. He was 33. He leaves behind his wife and two young children. Alfredo recently received his PhD. Alfredo was the first in his family (and his village) to earn a PhD. Here he is with his dissertation.

and with colleagues, moments after successfully defending his thesis:
and with his wife:

Alfredo and I visited a few rural schools together and, during the long car rides, we got to know one another. We called our friendship a tribute to qualitative research and anthropology. We both asked very blunt questions about one another's upbringings (his is rural Kenya, mine in suburban America). Here is Alfredo with a handwashing station at a rural school:

We also wrote news articles together, such as this one:

I can't find words to describe how sad it feels to know that Alfredo is gone. The world has lost someone who was a tireless advocate for the poor, someone who showed young boys and girls that education could catapult you to new horizons.

Alfredo, I'll miss our g-chats and e-mails. I'll miss your irreverant humor and gentle chides. Most of all, I will miss your giant smile and whole-hearted laugh.

Shannon

11 comments:

Alie Eleveld said...

Dear Shannon,
We share the sorrow of losing Alfredo with you. Alfredo was the study coordinator of SWAP for over two years. We were not only enjoying his professional expertise but also his great sense of humor. It is unbelievable that he is gone so soon after getting his PHD. My thoughts are with his young family.
Alie Eleveld, Program Director, SWAP

Chris Obong'o said...

Hi Shanon,
It is in deed unfortunate to lose Alfredo like this. I knew FXO (thats how we fondly refered to him) since 2003 when we worked together in a baseline survey of KEMRI/CDC in Kisumu. He was an inteligent, funny and extremely considerate gentleman. Kenya has lost a very promising social scientist. My prayers to the family for strength.

Chris Obong'o, Kisumu

Margaret said...

Sometimes it's very hard to understand the grand scheme of things.
God knows I know.

Love Dad.

Archie said...

My brother sent me a text about this en was in denial! So its true Alfredo is no more..... I owe my management skills to Dr. Obure and may the Almighty rest his soul in eternal peace and give comfort to his wife and children! Fare thee well Alfredo!

Immaculate Okeyo....
Houston, TX.

Anonymous said...

A great loss. Through your writings I have learned of the significant contributions Alfredo made in a relatively short period of time. As a tribute to him I pray that those whose lives he has touched continue to work in the sprit he embraced.
Love you,
AP
Keep writing

Abril said...

What a sad day. Thank you for sharing your photos and memories of Alfredo. I hope you're doing well.

April

OBURE said...

THEY HAVE DECIDED TO KILL MY BROTHER WHO WAS VERY HONEST EVER SINCE I KNEW HIM WHEN I WAS A CHILD. i STILL cannot believe that my brother is no more.anyway, i have to come to the reality that he is no more but God will punish them.
May the soul of my eldest brother,DR.ALFREDO, rest in peace. Owadwa, i LOVED YOU BUT GOD LOVED YOU MOST.

Brother,
DR. JUMA GERALD OBURE.

Shannon said...

Thanks everyone for sharing your memories of Alfredo. This is such a tremendous loss for us and for so many others whose lives he touched - directly or indirectly - as a health researcher.

It's hard not to feel angry and confused.

I want to encourage everyone to donate to a fund set up by Dr. Rob Quick at CDC to support the education of Alfredo's family. You can email Dr. Quick or me at smcmahon@jhsph.edu for details.

Such an exceptional person. So much potential. It's almost too hard to comprehend.

Shannon

Adam said...

I'm so sorry. I know what Alfredo meant to you and those around him and how much he was a part of your work in Kenya. My thoughts are with his family and friends.

Linda said...

it is sad indeed that such a bright teacher/tutor, researcher, friend's life was shortened so suddenly. As my tutor at KIM, Kisumu (and GLUK)remember the lectures, well presented and the discusions that made us all pass well. RIP you will be missed by many whom you inspired

Jerusha O said...

I'm so angered that someone had to end Alfredo's life prematurely. He is a great loss to our community and country. I will remember him for his intelligence and high sense of humour. The question that keeps bothering my mind is that who will ever bring light to those poverty ravaged villages of Nyanza if young people with great potential like FXO are prematurely sent to rest.
Pole sana to my former head teacher, Mr Chris Obure (Alfredos father).
Jerusha O.